How can I quit smoking? (for my future tobacco enthusiasts)

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grown kids, old kids, teen kids

I quit smoking eleven years ago and am very happy that none of you kids have shown any interest in even trying cigarettes. A couple of you, I know, if you ever try it will get sucked into the habit.

image from Fight Club... she did not have testicular cancer...

image from Fight Club… she did not have testicular cancer…

Nicotine is insidious and extremely powerful. A brain scientist once told me that our brains light up all over in reaction to nicotine–it’s like a brain bomb. It has more power on our brains than… everything else. That is why I urge you to avoid it in the first place. Seriously, just steer clear.

Despite all the well-known risks and revolting qualities, I loved smoking. Cigarettes were the only thing that ever caused me to steal (I stole cigarettes from your father and probably other people when the opportunity presented itself). I lied about it, too, which is utterly contrary to my personality.

I switched to unfiltered Camels when I couldn’t afford two packs of Camel Lights every day and I’m fairly certain that at some point I walked a mile for a Camel.  I smoked when I had pneumonia and couldn’t completely quit when pregnant.

I know, I’m a monster. Seriously, I know.

There are a few things to keep in mind about quitting smoking. First: don’t stop quitting. People who successfully quit, continue to quit dozens (and dozens!!) of times. It’s like trying to find your way through a maze that keeps dropping you back at the starting point, or maybe you could think of it as a video game. When you meet up with a troll, you need to have your bribe ready. Each time you may get a little farther or learn a tiny lesson.

When I finally quit, with a very detailed plan in place, I had…

  1. alerted everyone I knew that I was quitting on my birthday
  2. a very supportive quitting buddy who was quitting at the same time
  3. a huge supply of tiny lollipops with me at all times
  4. a tally of the money saved (at that time it was $7 per day or $49 per week!!)
  5. no concern for food calories
  6. a supply of nicotine inhaler things if absolutely necessary (didn’t use them, tho)
  7. chanted to myself that “the urge will pass” until it did
  8. changed all my routines so that they could not trigger me
  9. arranged to spend all available time with you guys in the community swimming pool, because it was a “safe zone”
  10. very limited socializing sticking to non-smoking, non-drinking mommies

And finally, after doing all that for three months, I had a nervous breakdown. Yep, I had to have a nervous breakdown to get through the entire process. Fortunately, not everyone has to go through that step.

I had quit so many times using so many methods and it was torture every time. The biggest lesson that took the longest to learn was that I had no ability to have “just one.”  Your brain will turn itself in pretzels to try to convince you of this lie, but “just one” isn’t an option for an addict.

Because the final quitting experience was so profoundly painful I could call that pain to mind whenever I had a moment of temptation. I needed every tool in my toolbox, I used the pain of the experience, and I very, very passionately did not want to model smoking for you guys a minute longer.

It makes me really happy that you don’t remember me as a smoker.

So if you find yourself needing to give up cigarettes, just start quitting and keep quitting. If I can do it, anyone can.

Yes, I have over $29,000 that wasn’t spent on tobacco and no, you can’t have it.

Love,
yermom

7 thoughts on “How can I quit smoking? (for my future tobacco enthusiasts)”

  1. Thanks – I’m working on taking the plunge myself (again). My stop date is the 11th. So far I’m two days in to Champix and waking up thinking positive thoughts (which feels horribly strange) and today I started doing Morning Pages again, with “reasons”. And “options” – which is harder. I would LOVE about 40 packets of those cinnamon toothpicks you find all over in the US, but not here. Hmm. I might put a plea up for someone to send me a bunch, ASAP!

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